Explain DN-lrosXVNPEw5h May 16, 2026

Dear Just a random thought,

Guys, if you know someone likes you and you don't like them back, please tell them immediately and don't give them false hope. You guys might think I'm exaggerating and think it's not a big deal, but it is. Imagine yourself in a situation, where you confessed to your crush but your crush didn't reject you or didn't like you back. Of course you'll think you have a chance as long as you try, but sometimes not giving an answer is already a rejection. That's what I learned the hard way.

I had a crush on this one guy during my second year as a junior in high school. I always give him chocolate, yes always because it's every day ( yes, I'm that desperate) he would always wear a polite smile and say thank you, so I thought I had a chance (fyi, he was the campus crush) I kept giving him chocolates for a year before finally confessing to him in the chat ( I don't really like confessing in person, especially to him, since he's famous as hell). Guess what he did after reading my confession letter. He didn't reject me or say that he likes me back, so of course I still thought I had a chance.

After confessing I tried to chat him everyday but he always left me on delivered, and he would only chat thank you after my friend gave him chocolates from me ( I stopped going personally since I don't wanna face him that time). My past self really thought I had a chance, because like I said he didn't reject me, he didn't return my feelings either, but I thought that time "guess that's fine than getting rejected"

That is until I saw his post, he was with his gf. That's when I realized he was only being polite to me since he doesn't want any drama. One of his friends chatted me and told me he showed my confession message and my constant chats to their group and some of them called me desperate) of course that broke my heart and I cried, but I moved on. That's why people, you should reject someone if you don't like them instead of giving them false hope even if your rejection hurts them. Giving them false hope then crushing their hope hurts more:)))