Dear Anyone,

I'm a man in a FMF throuple. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and our partner has been with us for three. In the beginning intimacy was three to four times a day, at least 21 days a month, and after a year started to taper off. That is no longer the issue. As a matter of fact my wife rarely engages with me, yet professes her love daily. Our partner absolutely avoids intimacy with me and will readily engage with my wife. I am no longer feeling the love. I have talked with them and always get the promise that they will do better, but it never happens. I have been considering leaving both relationships. I will never beg for affection, yet I am starving for it.